The “Lifestyle” is a term that swingers use to describe their sexually adventurous culture. A couple can be in the lifestyle by attending events (hotel takeover parties, swinger cruises, BDSM clubs, etc) and becoming familiar with what goes on at the events (such as having sex with other couples, group sex, and BDSM play).
As a comedian, I have been performing for nudists, swingers and BDSMers for nearly 10 years. My participation in “the lifestyle” both as an entertainer and for social recreation has given me an extensive experience in sexual exploration in ways that most people never get the opportunity to experience. This is mostly due to societal and religious perceptions. As exploring our sexuality becomes more commonplace and less taboo, singles and couples are increasingly wanting to discover various “sex positive” communities, but often don’t have the knowledge or communication skills needed to navigate these complex communities.
Having explored “the lifestyle” as a couple, as a single person, and as an entertainer that has traveled to various lifestyle events all over the world for the last 10 years, I’m happy to advise couples and singles on whether or not they’re ready to explore these sex positive communities, and the best way to achieve their sexual goals while minimizing the risks. If you are a happily married couple or well adjusted single person that is looking to safely expand their sexual horizons with other couples and singles, I’m more than happy to help guide you.
Disclaimer: I AM NOT A LICENSED SOCIAL WORKER, MARRIAGE COUNSELOR, SEX COUNSELOR, MATCHMAKER or SEX WORKER. IF YOU ARE TRYING TO FIX YOUR MARRIAGE OR GET LAID, I CAN NOT HELP YOU.